My Dearest Amber....

I thought long and hard about whether I should write this or not. Eventually I decided that although it may bring tears to my eyes to write this now, I felt I should let you know how fantastic your grandma (my mother) really was. 

At the Aquarium in Maui

 Your Grandma was taken from us far too soon and even though you only knew her for a short 17 months, you were so fortunate to have been able to spend many weeks and weekends with her. Over the years I know I am going to tell you many great stories about her, but I also wanted you to have this to look back on to remember the top five ways your Grandma was so exceptional.

Reason #5: Loving

Your Grandma loved you (and her whole family) so much. I seem to have endless photos of her snugging you and you definitely loved it. Any time Grandma was around you would instantly stick your arms straight out in the air and demand that Grandma snuggle you instead of mom.

When you were very little, I often didn't know how to get you to sleep as well as Grandma did. So most of the time when we were visiting Grandma she snuggled you to sleep. She had the "magic touch" with you. Eventually it became a ritual and you basically demanded Grandma snuggle you to sleep whenever she was nearby. Fortunately Grandma was more than happy to oblige.

Let's take a quick trip down Snuggle Lane.....

The day after you were born (first to arrive to see you!)

3 generations

8 month snuggles

1st birthday snooze in Grandma's arms

Reason #4: Beautiful

Your Grandma was beautiful inside and out. She always went out of her way to make sure all of those around her were happy and she never once asked for anything in return. In terms of outer beauty, I believe the word "stunning" sums it up.

My very favorite picture of your Grandma

Reason #3: Generous

I can't even begin to explain how generous Grandma was. You were constantly showered with gifts "just because" and you and I even got to go to Maui when you were just 3 months old!

Having a snuggly snooze in Maui

Reason #2: Smart

One of the most accomplished realtors on the Coast, Grandma proved that she could win big in a 'man's world'. She was (and is) an inspiration to me and part of the reason I chose the career path I did.

....and the #1 Reason your Grandma was so exceptional...

She was my best friend.

There is a common saying that "we all eventually grow up and turn into our parents". I'd say that even if this only half comes true we are both pretty lucky.